Frozen Nowhere

But at least I am not going to talk about men and what I want in a dating relationship.

No…

Not right now.

So… a few days ago (Tuesday) I had to go to meet with my son’s educational psychologist at his school. My son has had unidentified “issues” with school environments since kindergarten. I had hoped that he would have outgrown it, but as teacher after teacher signaled him out as having something “wrong” with him, I grew more and more concerned… and, of course, I blamed myself for the difficulties. Oh, there were many reasons that this was MY fault:

*I didn’t know I was pregnant with him until I was 3 months along. During that time,…

Okay, so in the last month or so I have finally started to put some thought into what it is that *I* think makes a good relationship for ME. Maybe I should have thought of this years ago, and decided my future based not on whether someone seemed to like me well enough, and might be able to provide for me and future children that we might have, but really think about what qualities that I wanted in a mate — basically before I “settled” for someone I thought would be good to me (which, it turns out that he most certainly was NOT good to me, and even now I laugh when he says “if you need anything, let…