Frozen Nowhere

Much of my life makes me lonely …
I live (primarily) alone with cats. I have my kids only 2 weeks out of a month, and because my schedule is divided like this it makes it harder to take classes or join groups that require concrete commitments. I want to go out and DO things, but when I have my kids I also want to spend my evenings with THEM, not send them to a babysitter, not after they have been at a babysitter most of the afternoon.
 
I am conflicted.
 
I want to go out and join in things, but I don’t want to give up TOO much of my children’s time… and I don’t want to

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I, Pam, AKA Moon’sLark :
 
Do soulfully (and totally irreverently) wish to steal BORROW mooch totally adopt the deliciously, wickedly, perfectly SOVERIGNITY*-INDUCING idea from Havi Brooks (AKA The Lovely Blogger/Writer/Yoga Instructor/Professional Biggifier/Pirate Queen with a  (well dressed) Duck Business partner/First Mate named Selma) :
 
MY Dammit List**
 
For those of you who don’t know Havi, go check her out!! RIGHT NOW!!
 
Okay, now that you have a bit of an understanding of why I love Havi’s Blog (despite the fact that I’m only one in a huge crowd of fans fanatics pirate-wannabees readers adoring masses that is striving

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