Frozen Nowhere

If I had been clear-headed, and not completely PANICKED about going to the meeting the next day I would have seen what he was trying to do with this series of things that he was doing to me… 
 
Which would simply be this: He was mad and frustrated that I no longer wanted to take his bullshit, that I was considering the comment and the made up “nasty” text messages about me, as childish and unacceptable ways to try and force me to call or talk to him and that I had blocked EVERY OTHER avenue to him having his say YET AGAIN and so he was going to out and out THREATEN me with the one thing he KNEW he could use to cause me to freak

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Oh yes, yes he DID…
 
The night before I was gearing up to deal with the whole legal and financial mess with STBX and our lawyers, our (not so) friendly (blog)neighborhood Stalker Boy was back at his stupid, juvenille tricks aimed directly at getting me worked up enough to respond to him.
 
Now, I have detailed the various things I have tried to get him lay off on me. I agree that I might not have been the most CLEAR in what I wanted from him… and I guess that might have been confusing for him. But at the same time, it really didn’t NEED to come to this.
 
If he had laid off when I asked him for space, back in

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Here we go again.
 
This weekend was wonderful. I like that now I can write and write and write over the course of the week and not worry too much about taking a pause on the weekends. I can’t believe that I didn’t realize I could schedule my posts… this is a “well, duh” moment, here.
 
Of course, up until this week I didn’t realize that I could do that… I mean conceptually I did know… I just never realized that I could do it on MY blog as well. And, a few months ago I didn’t NEED to know this stuff because, well… I didn’t WRITE a few months ago.
 
And now I have my

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 Wow… the drama…
 
Despite trying my best to avoid the Stalker, communication from him seems to leak through, at least a little each week. It is to the point, right now, that I have started to seriously look at what ELSE I can change or lock down in order to feel more secure…
 
What I have done so far:

• blocked him on FaceBook… I went a step BEYOND just taking him off my friends’ list and actually blocked him so that he could no longer email me through FaceBook. Of course I haven’t taken everyone he KNOWS off my FaceBook, but since I use it only a few minutes a week I don’t think that

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